I've worked in places where swearing was regular, even expected. I've worked in places where it was explicitly against the rules. Since I've been thinking about management, I've been wondering about the effects of swearing. What does it say about a workplace culture? Even if no one is offended by it, does it have a place?
Starting with this post by Bob Sutton, I followed a series of links on the topic of swearing in the workplace. This HBR article talks about leaders swearing. This study found "positive effects" of swearing. There are lots of articles that about how swearing "boosts morale." And of course, there are lots of opinion pieces, like this one, about "swearers" at work.
I don't know the "right" or "best" answer here. Maybe it's an "it depends" situation? I do want to point out that MBM calls on us to take a long-term view, which is something the articles I looked through weren't really explicitly considering. Many of the studies talked about "stress release" in the moment or fitting in with the workplace culture and such. What if using a swear word shocks people in the moment to be more productive, but sends out tiny cultural waves? What's the tradeoff?
Bob Sutton's article talks about how swearing levels might be different in closed team meetings versus public venues. The idea of split norms bugs me a bit. I've been in a closed meeting where a leader has said something a bit disparaging when referring to another that s/he would never say in public. This made me wonder what that leader was saying about me when I wasn't in the room. It also made me wonder if the public face of the leader was genuine; it literally devalued the praise of that leader in my eyes.
In short, I don't know what level of swearing is optimal in the long term. I do know words matter and contribute to culture, and the Guiding Principle of Respect calls on us to be sensitive and encourage team work. After haplessly typing on this subject for 30 minutes, I think would recommend being conservative in your language, especially as a leader. You never know who is listening and what messages you are sending.
Leave a comment about how you feel about swearing in the workplace. How does it contribute to culture? What are the long term consequences of swearing? Am I being stodgy?
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